Introducing Men’s Divorce Circle
Helping Men Rebuilding During and After Divorce
Hi, I’m Jesse J. Frye, founder of Men’s Divorce Circle. When I went through my own divorce, I wasn’t looking to start a movement. I was just trying to survive it—sorting through legal papers, parenting schedules, and financial statements while wondering how a capable, organized man could still feel so completely lost.
I had support in some areas, but not in the ways that actually mattered. No one was helping me figure out how to live through it—how to hold it together or rebuild when everything felt like it was falling apart. That’s when it hit me: men need a place to talk about divorce differently.
Not to complain, but to move forward. To rebuild. To learn how to handle the legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting challenges that come with divorce—and to do it with structure, accountability, and support.
Men often isolate during divorce. We stop talking, our health suffers, our careers take a hit, and far too many men spiral into depression or destructive habits. We don’t need another place to vent—we need a roadmap for recovery. That’s what Men’s Divorce Circle was built for.
This community and coaching platform is designed specifically for men who want to navigate divorce with clarity and confidence. It’s not therapy, and it’s not a pity party. It’s a structured path to rebuild your life. We focus on emotional control, financial recovery, co-parenting with integrity, and rediscovering your identity as a father and as a man.
Each week, I’ll share short, real conversations about topics most men go through but rarely talk about:
Managing emotions when everything feels uncertain
Communicating effectively with your ex
Rebuilding finances and professional stability
Staying connected with your kids
Regaining confidence and purpose
When I went through it myself, I made mistakes—hiding my divorce at work, overreacting to texts, and trying to push through alone. What I needed then was exactly what we’re creating now: a place for men to connect, learn, and grow together.
Divorce is one of life’s hardest transitions. In the U.S. alone, more than 650,000 men go through it every year. Yet most do it without a clear framework or community. Men’s Divorce Circle changes that.
We’re building a virtual space now, with plans for local chapters, in-person meetups, and retreats designed to help men rebuild from the inside out. You can be part of this from the start—whether you join through Substack, social media, or directly inside the Men’s Divorce Circle community.
Over the next few months, we’ll launch group coaching, online workshops, and our six-month Divorce Reset Workbook—a guided path that helps men move from chaos to clarity.
If you’re ready to stop just surviving and start rebuilding, subscribe here on Substack or visit mensdivorcecircle.com. Subscribe to this Substack to get guidance and support.
You don’t have to go through a divorce alone. Let’s rebuild with purpose, together.
Legal Disclaimer: Mens Divorce Circle is not legal support or therapy and is not a replacement for those resources for Men navigating divorce or separation.